Re: she was never my girl it was just my turn

[sun seeker]

   Hey.

  Got up for work at 5a.m. and my home phone rang and rang. No one ever calls that early. My stomach tenses my heart races as I answer, my first thoughts were it was a family emergency.  I said hello nothing I said hello again nothing I said it again the thats when I heard hello my worst fear came true. It was my exBPDgf, I immediately hung up with out saying a word. i feel so empowered and strong.

I blocked the # she called from.  My home # is private. She must have done so leg work to get it. My cell # was changed at first N/C , Facebook is blocked, and I don't check my emails . I am committed to N/C 100%... .

What balls she has .  7 weeks N/C and there are more good days then bad now.  I was at college last night and women are coming up and talking to me again. Must be noticeably happy again. Man this inner peace is a very nice change. I know I still have healing to do but im just enjoying the moment. 

[bpdspell]

Love your title post.

Yes it was our turn when we were with them. And it will be someone else's turn in hell when our turn is over. BPD's belong to no one except themselves. They are children trapped in adult bodies and it's all memememememememe and more me! The narcissism is saddening and quite unfortunate. I know my ex suffers like hell.

I'm glad you hung up. Mine texted me and prank called me even after a restraining order was in place. Stay strong in No Contact. And if you fall off the wagon; get back on.

Spell

[ShadowDancer]

EXCELLENT! YOU DA MAN! IMO this read was a shining example of what simple straight up hard core NC (care?) looks like. Your list of accomplished required tasks and actions, in conjunction with your demonstrated conduct, was exemplementry and empowering for me, and quite suave of you .

As to your "it was just my turn" thread title, I instinctively and darkly thought,... . on the village tricycle?

[Kallor74]

BPD's belong to no one except themselves. They are children trapped in adult bodies and it's all memememememememe and more me! The narcissism is saddening and quite unfortunate.

This is truth.

[free-n-clear]

"it was just my turn" ... . on the village tricycle?

    Love it! Called my ex the town bike after one of her infidelities, but tricycle is a better fit with her (their) childishness. 

[sun seeker]

 Holy crap hahahahahaha!

Town tricycle . That was a good one Shadow... .

  Thanks for the support & laughs in these trying times.

[RecycledNoMore]

ROFL the title of your post... .

The village bicycle

Step right up

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