Hello to all,
I am just beginning process of divorce with BPD and we have a 12 year old daughter. Although my daughter and I have always been very close, about three weeks ago her behaviors and attitudes towards me changed drastically. I have no doubt that she is being. Coached and dad is the bad guy. She also started acting like she is angry with me and can't remember or explain why.
Although my BPD partner initially agreed we should take her to counseling, she then shifted and said she must "screen" any counselors my daughter sees and then told my daughter mom didn't think daughter needed counseling and dad was making her go.
I am gravely concerned she is being heavily coached.
When I brought these concerns to lawyer, he pretty much blew it off!
Asking for help, tips and guidance from anyone in how to handle this situation.
Thanks!
Hello Survived. That must make you feel horrible. It is sadly common, disordered parent(s) or not. Perhaps you can read this for some information?
The complex issue of alienated childrenAlso, it would help to post this directly to the Family Board, as there are members there going through this same thing. The senior members have been dealing with it for a while, and could probably offer some good advice and support.
Co-parenting after the Split