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« on: January 23, 2014, 03:24:50 PM »

Was a few days ago, I got the mail out of my mailbox. It was a bill that was addresses to her from the church counselor she had been seeing. You know, the one that gave her the co dependency no more book? Funny thing, I opened it. She had NOT been back since a week after she met my replacement... . I guess now that she met him, all her problems are fixed? She doesn't have anything wrong with herself, right? Bc someone likes her must mean something was wrong with Arn?

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« Reply #1 on: January 23, 2014, 03:28:59 PM »

i think she just got her "analgesic" from the pain... . therefore no therapy needed, why would she go to therapy when is far easier and comfortable to fool herself, drown the pain and continue?

nothing wrong with Arn... .   Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #2 on: January 23, 2014, 03:52:21 PM »

Was a few days ago, I got the mail out of my mailbox. It was a bill that was addresses to her from the church counselor she had been seeing. You know, the one that gave her the co dependency no more book? Funny thing, I opened it. She had NOT been back since a week after she met my replacement... . I guess now that she met him, all her problems are fixed? She doesn't have anything wrong with herself, right? Bc someone likes her must mean something was wrong with Arn?

Of course, Arn. I'm the problem, too. Like mine will cut down her counseling because she is feeling better. Like yours, we know what lurks underneath the surface, and it will resurface time and time again.
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« Reply #3 on: January 23, 2014, 04:02:17 PM »

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« Reply #4 on: January 23, 2014, 04:17:16 PM »

Keep going, keep going a magic bullit just ahead, I can see how they become so sexualised, objectified. I've felt it, escape from problems through the opiate of the body. Someone else can carry them, they often turn to religion toward the end I've read. A man who will love them always and just out of reach.

Anyway I have a nightmare to go to, sweet dreams everyone.
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« Reply #5 on: January 23, 2014, 05:22:26 PM »

She probably just didn't want to tell the church therapist guy what she did. I'm sure she didn't feel like having to explain herself to him.
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