My uBPDbf was home on vacation all week and it was he ll. he wanted to argue, complain, and feel bad, etc. I contacted my attorney 1 1/2 weeks ago but he was away on vacation until this coming Monday, so I will be speaking with him tomorrow. After a night of 2 hrs of threats and badgering after my uBPDbf went out and got "wrecked", today he wants to apologize for everything, even starts crying, I'm sorry's over and over. I just don't believe! I am so synical now!
I'm sorry you had to go through his denigration and acting out He was feeling engulfed and his fear of abandonment was triggered with his begging. I love you don't hate me. The push / pull cycle.
