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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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OopsIDidItAgain
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What is your sexual orientation: Gay, lesb
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« on: July 24, 2015, 03:07:59 PM »

I think I've reached a point of realization.

I made a dating profile for the sake of just making lesbian friends in the area. Lots of gay people do this since it's a lot harder to make new gay friends. I have several plutonic friends who I met from "dating sites"

You know what I realized? I realized that there are girls out there talking to me like I'm a person, girls who want to actually get to know me and value my opinion. It actually felt really good to be able to hold a conversation with someone and feel like they were actually understanding what you are saying.

Making new friends started as a distraction from being lonely. But it's honestly proving to be very therapeutic in making me realize that I am a valued person and people in the "dating" or new friendship world actually care about what I'm saying, and contributing in a conversation.

I know it looks like I'm trying to replace her but... .damn, I just discovered something about me.
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