Extreme BPD…Words of Wisdom Brings Peace Tonight

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My extreme uBPDexH has brought me much horror and long-overdue peace.  The horror arrived when my ex's demons surfaced and his character traits fall solidly between Sociopath and Psychopath.  The peace arrived when I can compare him to my uBPD mother and for the first time in my life look back and know she was a broken BPD though and through, totally emotionally unprepared to deal with the world.  I have compassion for my mother like never before. 

I found the words below in an article and wanted to share:

What we call something doesn't matter. There is one undeniable truth about predators: if we refuse to see them while we still have a chance, we'll never see them coming later—when we don't.



Today I am grateful for Dr. Phil's "Life Code"

[Hope0807]

My extreme uBPDexH has brought me much horror and long-overdue peace.  The horror arrived when my ex's demons surfaced and his character traits fall solidly between Sociopath and Psychopath.  The peace arrived when I can compare him to my uBPD mother and for the first time in my life look back and know she was a broken BPD though and through, totally emotionally unprepared to deal with the world.  I have compassion for my mother like never before. 

I found the words below in an article and wanted to share:

What we call something doesn't matter. There is one undeniable truth about predators: if we refuse to see them while we still have a chance, we'll never see them coming later—when we don't.



Today I am grateful for Dr. Phil's "Life Code"

[bungenstein]

Yes, personally I think the BPD shares far too much with psychopathy for us to really treat them that different.

Psychopaths will create a blueprint for constructing a mirror-perfect soulmate persona and then, they claim you... .same as BPDs.

Psychopaths will lie and manipulate and abuse and feel no empathy, same as BPDs.

[Mutt]

I found the words below in an article and wanted to share:

What we call something doesn't matter. There is one undeniable truth about predators: if we refuse to see them while we still have a chance, we'll never see them coming later—when we don't.



Today I am grateful for Dr. Phil's "Life Code"

I'm sorry to hear about your mom. You were able to connect your uBPDh back to your past. I think you see things differently when you start to work on yourself and see the reasons why we can fall into these terrible r/s's. It opens your eyes. A quote from Anaïs Nin.

“We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are"