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« on: January 14, 2015, 04:16:24 PM »

Like the title says. The worst time of day for me is usually morning and sometimes nights. Weekends haven't been bad lately but Mondays are difficult. What days are most difficult for you?
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« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2015, 05:22:42 PM »

Well, I saw her almost everyday, but I would have to say Fridays are bad. The anticipation of the weekend and spending time with her is gone. Kind of leaves a hole in my heart.
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« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2015, 05:30:05 PM »

It's kind of the opposite for me. She lived a decent amount away so I didn't see her much during the week. The only real time I got to spend with her was on weekends. I would pick her up because she did not drive. Same thing if I went to see her on a weekday I would drive out there. She texted and called constantly during the week. I think the reason Mondays are bad for me are because of the realization that I spent a whole week not only not talking to her but also not seeing her. Most will probably say weekends but I think that's why mine is Mondays.
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« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2015, 05:31:57 PM »

Mornings were hard but finally getting to the point where he's not the first thing I think about. Most days have a tough bit if I have too much time on my hands
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« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2015, 05:33:31 PM »

It's kind of the opposite for me. She lived a decent amount away so I didn't see her much during the week. The only real time I got to spend with her was on weekends. I would pick her up because she did not drive. Same thing if I went to see her on a weekday I would drive out there. She texted and called constantly during the week. I think the reason Mondays are bad for me are because of the realization that I spent a whole week not only not talking to her but also not seeing her. Most will probably say weekends but I think that's why mine is Mondays.

I lived about 4 blocks away in the same subdivision. Either way I take, I can see her damn house. I dont look... .
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