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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: Will I ever Haunt her like she does me?  (Read 713 times)
BorisAcusio
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« Reply #30 on: June 07, 2015, 03:49:59 PM »

A few months ago my ex reached out to me desperate to hear my voice. Really glad I never obliged!

Kudos to you. Those attempts never work out in the way we hope.
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« Reply #31 on: June 07, 2015, 06:00:53 PM »

I think the key commonality is that they cant remember the shared experiences to value or appreciate them... .Prisoners of the moment... .At least that was the case with my ex,  there was no 'history' he could connect to... .It was fragmented facts devoid of emotional memory... .Excruciatingly painful to witness and accept
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