Married for 8 years. Spouse Bipolar 1 with BPD and substance abuse

[JACtown425]

Need help finding the truth. Sorting through my hurt, grief, loss, and anger. Wife had an affair 14 months.

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[vortex of confusion]

 

Welcome to the forums!

It sounds like you have a lot to sort out. That can be a very scary place to be.

The lessons that you can find to the right of this message are a great place to start. There is a lot of information to digest.

How much have you read about BPD and such? How long has she had these diagnosis?

 

[an0ught]

JACtown425,

sounds like your world came only recently crushing down  . Take your time to look around and read more. When ready maybe you can tell us a little more about your situation, whether there are kids, the affair and level of substance abuse.

Again welcome,

a0