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Re: How did they break up with you? (If they did)
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Ignored me for a few weeks. When I finally heard from her, she told me she wanted to go to jail and needed a break from everything. Asked if she wanted to go somewhere to talk and she blocked me.
Hit up a friend of hers on FB that was always commenting on her statuses and introduced myself. Asked if my girlfriend was okay because she was acting weird.
The friend freaked. They were in an online relationship and my ex was planning to move in with her.
Ex spent a month raging at me through text & three years stalking me, while claiming I was stalking her and that she didn't even know me, inevitably violating the court order between us.
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Quote from: coldmist on August 31, 2015, 12:42:33 AM
I got split black by my exgf for telling her I cared about her and how much she meant to me (engulfment trigger)
Yeah pretty much exactly how it went for me. There was even a talk we had where i said those exact things.
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