Thank you everyone, I do sometimes regret asking her to leave, it was enviable to me. She was just too needy and refused to care for herself. I was taking care of our son and she would make excuses (her imaginary illnesses) to come to visit him. When she did it would be after he was in bed and she would try to keep me up all night talking about her problems. I kid you not, last time we were together she went from each toe all the way to the top of her head describing each and every sign and symptom of a multitude of desieses. If I even tried to discuss anything other than her problems she just ignored me and continued her survey.
That is when I said I cannot do this anymore, I told her get help a month and a half before this and all that while she ignored our son and staying in bed or roamed around town at 3am and then text me to explain the danger she felt she was in.
I'm like um... .you are washing clothes by yourself at 3am when you have laundry services at home? And you see strange guys and they scare you? And I'm suppose to do what to protect you?
Silly girl, you want to be attacked like you were in the past? Claims to have been raped by 5 different men.
Oh boy, and I wonder why I'm stressed out! Lol!
I have a new policy if you do wish to ask me why I'm so stupid.
Don't ask, don't tell, don't judge. Lol
Clearing the fog but I'm sure by tonight I will think she's all that and how much I miss her.
Someone just shoot me! Lol
Thanks again for your kind responses and I do wish you all well.
