Final CE hoop? (maybe? hopefully?)

[Nope]

As far as co-parenting goes, I remember after DH was given primary custody the GAL asked us to try giving uBPDm options to choose from instead of picking the best thing and telling her how it was going to be. She thought that would help BM feel a measure of control and not be so angry and reactive. So we sent BM an email giving her options and got back a standard raging non-answer which we then forwarded on to the GAL. I had one more phone call with the GAL explaining that we can't work with someone who just wants the fight and not solutions. She agreed.

Hopefully the CE will have this report for you next week. If that was the last hoop then she should be working on it this weekend.

[scraps66]

This Dr, clinician, whatever that is doing this CE is ATROCIOUS.  How can you expect to people hanging like this for how long?  The CE and the lack of reasonable closure, is allowing the whole situation to get more out of hand.  It's unfortunate because I see that now, the CE report will not be a picture of the actual situation, but the situation of the drawn out process.  I don't even know if I would want this unprofessional Dr. to issue a report at this point.  It seems it's fine to take your money, but she's taking care of her own business before taking care of her "business" and professional commitments.  If she does submit a report, I think she should give all the money back paid for the CE.       

[ForeverDad]

After yesterday, after care was a little nervous about DH picking up SD11 but he was able to get her without any (more) drama.

I had a daycare, one initially chosen by my Ex, use its "withdraw services" clause because of an incident with my Ex.  At another daycare the director called the police on her, went to court to file Harassment & Stalking, then withdrew it because a business is to use the trespassing approach.

Same with the pediatrician, they "withdrew services" during the temp order that had her in charge, even when I later got full custody, they said son couldn't come back.

If that ever happens to you, then it ought to reflect more on the mother than DH.