I’m just trying to love my child and let my side of my family love my child

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I have a 4 month old son, my partner and co parent will not stop trying to fight me, we’ve had to go to mediation, I’ve tried setting boundaries, and she just won’t stop trying to fight me and my loving family who will support her and love her no matter what, what do I do!? Showering her with kindness and support won’t work, giving her facts won’t work, being kind and supportive to my 4 month old son won’t work either, help me I love my son and I just don’t want him to learn this behavior and learn it for himself, I want him to have empathy like me

[Resilientfather]

I have a 4 month old son, my partner and co parent will not stop trying to fight me, we’ve had to go to mediation, I’ve tried setting boundaries, and she just won’t stop trying to fight me and my loving family who will support her and love her no matter what, what do I do!? Showering her with kindness and support won’t work, giving her facts won’t work, being kind and supportive to my 4 month old son won’t work either, help me I love my son and I just don’t want him to learn this behavior and learn it for himself, I want him to have empathy like me