my story of my ex girlfriend had she borderline pleas help

[Holland24]

Hello boys and girls, i am from the netherlands. i am now 3 weeks single and i want to tell you my story.



she always say to me that im the only one for her and that she never going to cheat.

let's talk first about her crazy jealousy behavior i have a few examples.

 a few months ago we should going out for diner with her family and one day she came to me and said that she was not happy i said why going dinner with youre family that must be nice.   She said she was afraid I would fall in love with her niece. While I never said a word to her niece

Another moment we were driving and they did not look so cheerful so I stopped the car and said what was going on and then she said she thought I had another while I only had her and always be loyal


She was always jealous while I did nothing wrong






another part of the story
She said if she would not have me anymore, she did not want her life anymore and threatened to jump for the train or ride a tree



now  we come to the final part   its now out for 3 weeks so 3 weeks ago her phone rings and it was a message from whatssap a boy texted to her horny p u s y  and she response with that se maybe going to swim that day.



so i said to her who is this boy  she said i did not have to respond to it. So i said to her im going to call him i wanna know who he is and then she said no dont call him  do you not trust me. I said of course i don't  trust this  but the boy dont answered his phone a couple of hours later i whatssapp with him and he said to me that the day before my girlfriend had sex with hime outside in the woods but in the beginnen i thought that he was lying so i said to her is it truth that you haved sex with that boy who texted you then she said  that he lies everyting.   
A few hours later on facebook I sent her back, it's true that you had sex with him when known she said yes yes I've had that was afraid you'd get angry she said she's sorry and that never More would happen and that she was mad at her self.



Her parents never said she had borderline SO MY BIG QUISTION TO YOU ALL YOU ALL READ MY STORY HAD MY EX BORDERLINE ?




i hope my english was good please response people

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[Holland24]

I forgot something she could not handle with money and spent a lot of money on me



Or if I had a break and did not respond to whatssap she was angry and said why did not you respond I said I'm having a break and also talking to colleagues like I'm wrong because I was not at whatsap at break time


or    
She also walked away if she was angry but in the first time i went outside en searching her but my mother said She wants you to look for her for attention.

Or she came to me once that her feelings were gone I said what are you doing here then if your feelings are gone for me the next day her feelings were back what the heck

[heartandwhole]

Hi Holland24,



I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Infidelity is very hard to deal with.

You say you've been single for 3 weeks, so did you break up with your girlfriend?  Are you still talking to her?

heartandwhole

[Holland24]

Even though i knew that she had cheated on me , I wanted to give her a second chance. And she wanted me too, but I could not contact her from my parents. Days to cry for a long time when my mother told me your feeling saying you have to give her a second chance then you have to do that she works in a supermarket and finished at 22.30 so I waited for her until she came out she came to me and Suddenly her mother came by bike and said she had to go with her mother and that she had said in the afternoon she no longer wanted so mother and daughter went away by bike and I only stayed in the car but I called She got up then took her mother on that mother said i do not realize you want her back i said i can not do without her i said she is on the phone then she said it's better to stop so first see in the afternoon that She does not want to lose me and later stop at night blessing first give me false hope and afterwards fall into hard lats they blocked me whatsapp

[Holland24]

Oh forget something the boy whose she cheated on my  with was an ex of her what the heck