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BabyYoda
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« on: January 18, 2020, 09:24:49 AM »

Hello, I have a mother with BPD and am struggling with maintaining a relationship with my younger siblings. They all live with my mother and I am currently the "bad child" in her eyes and my other siblings are isolating from me because of the relationship difficulties that I am having with my mother. Does anyone have any strategies for connecting with siblings and not letting a BPD parent come between them? Some of the siblings are 18 plus and others are young teens and children. Thank You!
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« Reply #1 on: January 19, 2020, 10:35:21 PM »

How are they isolating and what issues are you having with your mother? If I were to guess, they are taking sides, yes?
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