My husband is in the midst of a 4 day rage. It resulted from my taking a phone call while we were playing a game...that's all it took. He is mostly staying in a closed room but has also screamed at me about what an awful wife and mother I am. He says he will be leaving me as soon as he wraps some things up. Honestly, if I weren't afraid of his killing himself and the effect that would have on my kids, I might just kick him out. Typically, when not in a rage, he's lovely. Confused and abused.
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Most of us can relate so please know you are not alone.
When they rage and we don’t understand why or it seems like a complete over reaction to us it’s so confusing.
Do you think he is serious about leaving you? Is he aware of his BPD or in denial/not diagnosed? Unfortunately there is always a trigger and it’s not always relatable to us. So it leaves us with feelings of confusion. I’ve had this so many times when he would explode and I was left so confused not understanding what I did wrong.
