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April 15, 2010, 02:08:38 PM »
i am textin' from a new number, which i hope is not available,
but this ipod shuffle may be the best gift i've ever been given.
you know your ___, man. bestwishesandatailfeather-
i will not respond. it's not o.k. for her to treat me or anyone
else the way she's treated me. i just hope she doesn't continue
making contact.
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I was reading that as "you know you're hit_ man" for the past 5 minutes and trying to work out what she is saying!
Yeah, nevermind I broke you into a million bits but hey this Ipod is da bomb!
Did you buy her this fantastic gift or is she rubbing it in your face, did u just recommend it and then someone else got the gift either way... .
Blah, this doesnt make up for what you been thru does it? I find it amazing the "oh hi's" they send us! Cheek.
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it's her ipod, i just loaded it with songs from my itunes. i've been strictly
no contact since she broke it off, so she doesn't know how hurt i am. &
she won't. ever.
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Nice read (change the genders to suit your own situation):
www.gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2010/04/14/typical/#more-6079
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that is a good read. i'm going to be so glad when i get this situation
out of my system. i'm working on a song that a friend enlisted me to
help him with. of course it has references to homegirl-
feel the clothespins on your skin
feel me as i'm sinking in
the empty blackness in your soul
is screaming now to take control
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