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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: it's not o.k.  (Read 407 times)
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« on: April 15, 2010, 02:08:38 PM »

i am textin' from a new number, which i hope is not available,

but this ipod shuffle may be the best gift i've ever been given.

you know your ___, man. bestwishesandatailfeather-

i will not respond. it's not o.k. for her to treat me or anyone

else the way she's treated me. i just hope she doesn't continue

making contact.

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« Reply #1 on: April 15, 2010, 02:57:57 PM »

I was reading that as "you know you're hit_ man" for the past 5 minutes and trying to work out what she is saying!

Yeah, nevermind I broke you into a million bits but hey this Ipod is da bomb!

Did you buy her this fantastic gift or is she rubbing it in your face, did u just recommend it and then someone else got the gift either way... .

Blah, this doesnt make up for what you been thru does it? I find it amazing the "oh hi's" they send us! Cheek.
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« Reply #2 on: April 15, 2010, 04:46:20 PM »

it's her ipod, i just loaded it with songs from my itunes. i've been strictly

no contact since she broke it off, so she doesn't know how hurt i am. &

she won't. ever.
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« Reply #3 on: April 15, 2010, 05:11:05 PM »

Nice read  (change the genders to suit your own situation):

www.gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2010/04/14/typical/#more-6079

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« Reply #4 on: April 15, 2010, 05:56:34 PM »

that is a good read. i'm going to be so glad when i get this situation

out of my system. i'm working on a song that a friend enlisted me to

help him with. of course it has references to homegirl-

feel the clothespins on your skin

feel me as i'm sinking in

the empty blackness in your soul

is screaming now to take control
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