Amazing the intensity of these relationships, eh wahoo? Mine had dramatic breakups too and OTH was spot on with the point that they spend much time ahead of the breakup detaching (and... . lining up the next victim). All of this so that, when the breakup comes around, they're indifferent and almost giddy to get out and start the next relationship. How sick!
This I can really relate to - on the final burst she saw that I was completely shattered and moved in for the kill big time. One thing I did ask was what about all the intimate moments we have shared? Her response was 'I cant remember them.' So goes to show she had already 'checked out' of the relationship long ago and was just starting new relationship with the once abusive ex.
2 days later I initiated no contact and not once reacted to the social media smearing I received - although I was devastated beyond belief, only a few people (my mum and three non mutual friends) knew how badly it affected me. Nearly 7 months on and I just hope that my no contact and walking away without any comment or bad feeling shows that I had strength of character and was indifferent to the proceedings. But something tells me it just shows that I did not care as it is and always will be, only about her.