Surnia and FinalLee,
I am curious about these P Evans books.
My H is also undiagnosed and will probably always be...he refuses to see any MC or shrinks (as he puts it).
He also creates his own version of the Truth, with his own spin and twist...and the sad fact is that as his partner, I am NOT privy to the information. I only find out when I have somehow FAILED in a dramatic fashion!
I once told him, That's YOUR truth-NOW, what about MY truth? He just looked at me like I was crazy! ?
that gave me a clue that it was all created inside HIM.
And he was totally unwilling to admit ANY other possibilities.
He even says to me now, YOU are not the partner I thought you were. I am setting and sticking to boundaries on what behavior I will and will not tolerate. That means he had crafted a person in his mind that looked like me, but acted the way HE expected!
But the *real* GL didn't follow his
pattern. So he's confused at how he *figured* me wrongly. And that's why I am now THE PROBLEM. (but I know I am not)
Nice to know it's not me.