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Author Topic: UNIVERSITY RESEARCH PROJECT: For "Staying" Members  (Read 10404 times)
Nicole Poell, M.A.
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« on: August 12, 2012, 03:28:24 PM »

Research Study for "Staying" Members

We are looking for individuals 18 years and older, who are currently in a romantic relationship with someone who is either diagnosed with BPD or has symptoms that are indicative of BPD to participate in a research study.  I would very much appreciate your help in gathering information on this topic that I hope will provide insight into what works and what doesn_
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« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2012, 04:51:29 PM »

While it took a while to go through the questions I found the exercise useful for myself reviewing the different options open to me. And getting the book for free is even better  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2012, 04:33:56 AM »

Did the survey and got the book... yay!  Smiling (click to insert in post)

Was gonna buy this book... .but now i got it for free. Excellent Smiling (click to insert in post)


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« Reply #3 on: August 13, 2012, 06:28:14 AM »

I too found taking the survey helpful in reviewing my own actions, and the previous interactions. It helped me to see some things from a different perspective. Of course, there were a few questions that I wish there was room for a personal answer, but overall beneficial to gain some perspective. I look forward to reading the book.
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« Reply #4 on: August 13, 2012, 11:08:25 AM »

Hope my responses were helpful. Like the person above me, it was helpful slowing down and seeing which copng skills were working and which do not.
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« Reply #5 on: August 13, 2012, 10:15:03 PM »

ok i took this survey but due to only checking three boxes at first i didn't qualify but when i went back and looked at the questions again i qualified., i didn't go to web site to get free book though i<m not a advid reader but the questions were interesting... .Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #6 on: August 18, 2012, 08:14:50 AM »

Thank you for the study, I found it actually quite therapeutic in the sense of realizing that no matter what I seemed to do, it was never possible for me to fully de-escalate a situation or argument.

On a side note, I do hope to receive the results, as the book link provided does not work, and returns a 404 Not found error, which is indeed a shame, as I had hoped to give it a read.
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« Reply #7 on: August 18, 2012, 10:29:22 AM »

Thank you for the study, I found it actually quite therapeutic in the sense of realizing that no matter what I seemed to do, it was never possible for me to fully de-escalate a situation or argument.

On a side note, I do hope to receive the results, as the book link provided does not work, and returns a 404 Not found error, which is indeed a shame, as I had hoped to give it a read.

I got that the first time too. So i just copy pasted the link to the pdf until it worked. Had to try 4-5 times.

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« Reply #8 on: August 19, 2012, 03:53:32 PM »

Thank you for the study, I found it actually quite therapeutic in the sense of realizing that no matter what I seemed to do, it was never possible for me to fully de-escalate a situation or argument.

On a side note, I do hope to receive the results, as the book link provided does not work, and returns a 404 Not found error, which is indeed a shame, as I had hoped to give it a read.

Hmmmm, I got that error message too the first time. I hit browser back arrow. I hit it again and it worked. Just play with it a little bit and you should get it. Otherwise, if you go back a few screens, they do have a contact person if you have questions. I would explain your problem to them if what I said doesn't work for you. Best of luck!
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« Reply #9 on: August 21, 2012, 12:52:23 PM »

still waiting for the book and results . how long did it take4 to get yours
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« Reply #10 on: August 21, 2012, 01:22:31 PM »

still waiting for the book and results . how long did it take4 to get yours

The book was instant. On the last page of the test there is a link for downloading the book.

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« Reply #11 on: August 21, 2012, 02:37:19 PM »

I went ahead and filled out the survey, despite my concerns above. 

But I didn't receive the book. 

Was there no link on the last page? Same page where you enter your mail adress?

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« Reply #12 on: August 21, 2012, 03:01:18 PM »

I went ahead and filled out the survey, despite my concerns above. 

But I didn't receive the book. 

Was there no link on the last page? Same page where you enter your mail adress?

Andy

I didn't see a link.   Perhaps I missed it.   
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« Reply #13 on: August 31, 2012, 06:03:23 PM »

Hello Everyone,

Thank you all for participating in my survey!

As of September 1, 2012, the survey will be inactive.

I hope to have results within the next few months.

Best,

Nicole Duerod, M.A.
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