catalina, I don't know why he called you by "hey" - that must just be his way. I know I shouldn't laugh, but I had to laugh to myself that he called his ex wife "s***head" behind her back, but was always nice to her. They paint black so many people in their lives, it's incredible. Do you know I can't think of one person other than my ex's children, who he DIDN'T paint black - oh and a few friends. Funny that. I know we all have issues with friends, families, at work etc., but not like this.
Mine talks crap about others all the time, but acts differently when he talks TO them. He has called his ex wife "s***head" ever since I've known him. I thought it would go away after a while, but 8 years later, and I've never heard him call her by her name. He still talks to her too, but is always nice to her, although he blamed all of their marriage problems on her.
He never has called me by my name either, just says "hey" to me when he wants to talk to me. What's that all about?