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« on: February 07, 2013, 06:15:02 AM »

As I look back I still can't beleive my wife split me black.  I always gave her attention and what she wanted, I was an excellent father (very active with our kids), I vaccumed, cooked, did my and my daughters laundry (UBPDw wouldn't allow me to do hers) cleaned the house, etc 75% of all household chores. I was extremely active in our church.  I am outgoing, good looking, loving, caring, etc.   This maybe some of my Nar side but honestly I'm the type of man 99% of women would die to be married too.  She had it all - how can she throw it all away - I gave her the world but it wasn't enough.  Can it ever be enough?
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« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2013, 07:26:44 AM »

As I look back I still can't beleive my wife split me black.  I always gave her attention and what she wanted, I was an excellent father (very active with our kids), I vaccumed, cooked, did my and my daughters laundry (UBPDw wouldn't allow me to do hers) cleaned the house, etc 75% of all household chores. I was extremely active in our church.  I am outgoing, good looking, loving, caring, etc.   This maybe some of my Nar side but honestly I'm the type of man 99% of women would die to be married too.  She had it all - how can she throw it all away - I gave her the world but it wasn't enough.  Can it ever be enough?

I was a great dad to my step child with her, i worked long anti social hours,scarificed so much, worked my ass off with the housework etc... .  all i got was 'you are a rubbish father' 'you never do anything round the house'

So no its never enough, only when she wanted it to be 
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