should I stand up foor myslef this time?

[have gone nc]

Yet again I am in the same position!

I find out that my ex has found herself in a new job in my industry and she has told me that she hasn't told her new employers thetruth. I went to her place today and had a massive argument with her outside the shop because i know she isn't being honest. It makes me die that these people have done "no" background checks whatsoever, because if they did they would know 100% that she should NOT be working there. I know i look like the crazy one now to because i went down there but I just couldnt do nothing this time round. These people are so god damn manipulative it kills me, she even agreed that i had caught her out on her lies but said they wasnt lies because she has an excuse for them? then blamed me for not asking the question how she wanted? Im sick of these people becomming part of my industry and she is literally 2 minutes down the road to me... .  literally one phonecall would have mad them see she was a liar... .  whats wrong with employers nowadays?

[Clearmind]

Should I stand up for myself? - what are you needing to stand up to. If I read this correctly - you went to her house, she is an ex right?, you argued your point, she argued back she counter-attacked, you counter-attacked (this is an argument - between two people) and now you are upset?

What can you do differently so you don't find yourself in the same position?