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Johan
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March 22, 2013, 01:21:41 PM »
I seen traits,
Unneeded jealousy,, texting needing reassurance, multiple worries once i left for the weekend without her, broke up 2days after a friends shindig she knew i was attening. she worried as she ws unable have sex with me, and then break up saying I love but not in love. Can have sex with others, but not me.
Asked before she left our lovely home, look at me in eye and tell me you dont love me, she could not. Turned and cried. Asked her are you really going to go out for another man and she cried.
She said she loves me. I feel opposite of love but more worse.
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wanttoknowmore
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I was also thinking that how can they have sex with someone else and not with their partner?
I read that having sex with someone else is like they are trying to punish themself as they think they are bad and unworthy of real love. Its how they try to degrade themselves. Later they feel worse.
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Sending you hugs you dont deserve to deal with that.
Wanttoknowmore- do you remember where you read that, interested in hearing more.
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Quote from: Johan on March 22, 2013, 01:21:41 PM
She said she loves me. I feel opposite of love but more worse.
Are you saying you dont love her or that she doesnt love you?
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