Hate

[PM10]

I am having a hard time with his hatred and bitterness.  I am not even sure I can articulate this correctly.

In the many times that I have tried to end the relationship, he has always expressed that he feels such bitterness and hatred for me.  I am trying to understand this.  I can understand his being angry with me, sure.  But hate?

I have never felt hate.  I always just feel hurt.  I guess both are unhealthy, but which one is more "normal"?  Normal meaning healthy, I guess.

I hope that made sense!

[VeryFree]

love, hate, hurt. They all are very close to each other.

Love can become hate very easy, especially when you're hurt.

Realize that it are all just words... .  

[Clearmind]

Take your feelings then magnify them by 10! That is how he feels about himself - its not about you at all PM10.

I am sorry you are hurting. Remind yourself what you are holding onto and what is stopping you from letting go.

[PM10]

Well, part of what keeps me from letting go IS his hatred.  It makes me feel really awful that he hates me.  I feel bad, and guilty.

I guess I am not understanding how this is NOT about me.  He doesn't feel that way about anyone else.  Just me.  It makes me feel like a horrible person!