Hello... back after a long board shiatsu

[Depression = 72% of members]

Hi I used to post on this board but have been away from it for a while.

I am a female adult child of a borderline, histrionic, narcissistic raging lunatic mother who get worse every month.

I will never get over the trauma she cause me and although I don't hate her anymore, I still carry a lot of resentment at the tremendous damage cause by her constant raging and screaming etc... .  

As you all know as adult children of a borderline life was more than just walking on eggshells, it was more like walking into an ambush every day

The reason I am back is I need the support and [url=https://bpdfamily.com/content/communication-skills-validation]validation[/b][/url]... . and you need it too, from my fellow survivors. Unless one has had there very own Joan Crawford for a mother, they just dont understand what horrors we went through. To most our darling mommy dearests were just the most charming, wonderful, fun moms ever. (demanding, demeaning, humiliating, overbearing, needy soul sucking... .  

  Anyway, What better day than any by coming back on what has to be a favorite holiday for us!

[kcobain]

Hi I used to post on this board but have been away from it for a while.

I am a female adult child of a borderline, histrionic, narcissistic raging lunatic mother who get worse every month.

I will never get over the trauma she cause me and although I don't hate her anymore, I still carry a lot of resentment at the tremendous damage cause by her constant raging and screaming etc... .  

As you all know as adult children of a borderline life was more than just walking on eggshells, it was more like walking into an ambush every day

The reason I am back is I need the support and [url=https://bpdfamily.com/content/communication-skills-validation]validation[/b][/url]... . and you need it too, from my fellow survivors. Unless one has had there very own Joan Crawford for a mother, they just dont understand what horrors we went through. To most our darling mommy dearests were just the most charming, wonderful, fun moms ever. (demanding, demeaning, humiliating, overbearing, needy soul sucking... .  

  Anyway, What better day than any by coming back on what has to be a favorite holiday for us!

[kcobain]

Haaa... .  my auto spell check changed hiatus to whatever that was :-)

[nomom4me]

All I can say is;

No More Wire Hangers

EVER!

[ScarletOlive]

cobain, hehe I read the title and imagined a skateboard + Chinese massage, and was slightly confused. :P

Welcome back! Sounds like the holiday was a tough one for you?  How much contact do you have with your mom now?

Going beyond resentment is difficult and takes time. This article is a really great tool to help with that. Radical Acceptance for family members Good for you for working on healing and moving past hate. That's a big step. I'm not sure if you've checked out the Survivors Guide on the right sidebar but it's also really helpful for the healing process. Sending you much caring and support, cobain.

[P.F.Change]

Love me some autocorrect!

Glad you're back. If there's anything you'd like to talk about or work on, let us know.

Wishing you peace,

PF