Getting The last word

[LosingIt2]

If someone with BPD gets the last word/makes you look like a jack ___ in the end does that permanently satisfy their need to believe you're the one in the wrong?

[TippyTwo]

Permanently? Nothing with a pwBPD is permanent until they paint you black. Then you don't exist anymore.

Making us look like and feel like a jack*** is just par for the course it seems.

[fromheeltoheal]

The only thing permanent is the disorder, the rest is chaos, and you have to be at fault, because facing their shame is just too painful.

But enough about them.  What we can make permanent is removing people who are unhealthy for us from our lives and committing to permanent personal growth, on the way to that stellar relationship we went through trial by fire BPD hell to earn.  Good luck to you.