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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: May 28, 2013, 11:58:37 PM »

So after the mind games being played at the weekend by my exBPDw in terms of game requests, friends requests to my sister via step-daughters fb account (she is 7 and doesn't know she has it. My ex set it up to spy on people). I now discover today that she is now a facebook friend of my exgf, mother of my 12 year old daughter and is also a friend of my daughter too.

My exgf has only ever seen the charming side of exBPDw so I can't really talk to her about what is going on but what concerns me more than anything is why she is trying to attach to people within my life? It's worrying because she did the same to step-daughters biological father too in terms of befriending his ex. Does she see these people as trophies or just puppets to feed her information? Should I be concerned if she is latching on to my 12 year old daughter?

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