Too hot or just needing drama?

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Things have been very quiet for a the last week. No family stuff - or if there has been, I've not been asking... .

Yesterday, no reason, no warning - I asked a question about something he was doing, in a way he didn't like I guess and he raged.

I left for a while. When I came back he was upset and crying. He started the blame game as soon as I came in. I didn't say much, I just validated. He told me to move out, I told him he's right I should look for another place. He said we don't get along, I told him he's right about that but didn't expand on it. He said lots of things, I agreed.

He got quiet and went to bed. I think because he wasn't getting the argument he wanted... .

Makes me wonder if it was the heat or if things have been too quiet and he felt the need to create drama... .

[raindancer]

Things have been very quiet for a the last week. No family stuff - or if there has been, I've not been asking... .

Yesterday, no reason, no warning - I asked a question about something he was doing, in a way he didn't like I guess and he raged.

I left for a while. When I came back he was upset and crying. He started the blame game as soon as I came in. I didn't say much, I just validated. He told me to move out, I told him he's right I should look for another place. He said we don't get along, I told him he's right about that but didn't expand on it. He said lots of things, I agreed.

He got quiet and went to bed. I think because he wasn't getting the argument he wanted... .

Makes me wonder if it was the heat or if things have been too quiet and he felt the need to create drama... .

[bruceli]

All of the above and what I feel BPD/NPDw likes most of all... . testing me to she just how much I can take to see if I will leave.  Everyone has left her or has a shallow relationship with her as is the way of the pwPD.  Not being able to truly understand love, she constantly tests me trying to figure out why I have stayed... . This weekend was filled with... . boy... . you are soo odd.  You're the crazy one... . and all the rest that many on this site have heard from there pw PD... .