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Quote from: Eric1 on September 02, 2013, 09:50:21 AM
She said sorry for hurting me... .
I did push her away.
I couldn't take the rages or the controlling behaviour anymore and broke.
We would argue constantly. There was times that i over stepped the mark, which i'm not proud of.
Ok so apologize later when the an appropriate time arises. Then be done because you said you couldn't take the rages and really that's the bottom line. The rages would have continued. We all have to lick our wounds and move on when we just can't take it.
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I sent the apology. I didn't get a response, but I knew that could happen.
I feel good about it. I can now stop thinking about what I done wrong & really start to move on. Put all this passed me.
One day, when I've met someone who I'm attracted to and can make me laugh, I'll look back and think, why did i waste so much time on someone who doesn't deserve me.
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Quote from: Eric1 on September 03, 2013, 05:16:13 PM
I feel good about it. I can now stop thinking about what I done wrong & really start to move on. Put all this passed me.
I think this is a good moment:
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