In general, I think she would say "I don't like, the way that you think" when she was gaslighting or manipulating me and it wasn't working.
The house never flooded. I know the strike / counter trike thing is not productive but we were in the last days of devaluation. She was planning her revenge after convincing herself I never ever loved her and was just stringing her along. Sinister thoughts like this in my mind scared her as it showed I might not be so easy to pay back. That's how I read it.
Is it possible that when our thoughts 'appear' to be a whacky as theirs, that it scares them that we might be able to read their projections & read that what they're accusing us of is actually as good as a confession from them?
I certainly got the impression that when I got tuned in to my ex's bizarre statements, that she really worried I could read her, sins 'n' all!
Agreed. . Their attempt to project, gaslight or manipulate has failed hence the response of "I don't like the way that you think" as at this point they know they are not going to pull the wool over your eyes.
I didn't see this as a BPD thing, just as a manipulative thing but I've seen that statement here at last twice and it got me wondering. Has anybody else been subjected to it?