When they are stressed

I have to say when our BPD significant other is stressed it is an amazing thing to witness. I was in the "office" working and when I came down at 11 PM the night before she has to leave for a trip it all blows up. She was watching TV for hours and now it is my fault she didn't get up and look for things she needed. Chargers for the camera and so on. This is 11 PM on a work night for me. Now it is my fault because I was eating a snack. Truly my fault for being hungry not that she had wasted the last 4 hours with TV. Also my fault because when I asked what camera do you want to take she answered you know what camera. When all I want her is to say a name of a camera out loud. She refused to pick one in any way shape or form... .we have 2 pro bodies as I am a semi pro photographer but I wanted the good body for this weekend as well. And I paid for both. Ugh and I will still pack it for her any way even knowing I have a 15 day clock on this entire relationship I would still prefer not to be verbally abused for at least the next 2 weeks... .



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