A friend is here so I will be ok but yeah he seriously just locked me out of the house. Laughing. It's been a horrible week of him treating me horribly. His friend was telling him don't take out your Anger on those you love and he's been going on all night.
Not good. Although some distance to him may help to calm things down. Good that you have support through a friend.
They were out a while I received this familiar sounding text
"You may be asking what's going on with me but I know for a long time that something isn't right it's not the same. I know "
My question is. How do I help here? Do I validate via text?
It is a bit cryptic. Could be an indication that he knows something he wants to disclose but does not dare? Do you know what it means?
So maybe not text at all and talk? And if text control frequency and speed.
If you want to validate take up the sentiment that things are broken. Also indicate a bit that you are also exploring.
"Yeah, something is off track here. We'll have to adjust - not that I know all the answers how"And then take good care of yourself - that is the most important step.
Last week it was we have to get married we know it's forever and all the rosy glow stuff and supportive and proud ... . This week it's all the wrongs I and my family have done him. Help!
Words sometimes just make no sense. Neither the marriage nor the drama right now. Once you focus more on the emotions and less on words it gets a bit clearer where he is in his mind.