the perfect storm

[simplyasiam]

BPD drinking off meds pms and below temps that are keeping her inside for days mix all this in one pot and what do you get?

a storm of drama that is to much to deal with.

the longer I know her the more I can see she may be 30 years old but she has a 7 years old inside there that's running the show.

[Surnia]

These are bad news, simply! 

Is there anything you can do regarding healthy boundaries? Not to be drawn completely in the storm?

And are you safe?

[simplyasiam]

staying away from her is all i can do at this point

[maxsterling]

If staying away keeps you safe and sane, stay away.  I wish I had the option of staying away, but we live together, and creating that kind of space is nearly impossible.  Give yourself a timeout to think and heal and focus on YOU and the things that make you happy.  And then approach the relationship with clarity, and see if this is something you can work with, or if it is time to bail to protect yourself.