Any thoughts on this?
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Great realizations, nolisan. Intitially, it is so important to know that we aren't alone, that we weren't going crazy – so we share our experiences and focus on what happened.
Ultimately, the healing process ends up where everything ends up– with us. Through heartbreak, we grow and change. I think this is a great sign of your growth, nolisan!
What stage of detachment (links on the right) do you think you're in? ––––>
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