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State85
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Another weekend gone...
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January 12, 2014, 05:43:44 PM »
Ok, another weekend is gone. Y'all survive? I did. What we going to do now?
I'll tell ya... . continue with NC, live your life... . NOW is the time. Forget your pwBPD... now. Move on, focus on You! C'mon Man!
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Re: Another weekend gone...
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January 12, 2014, 05:48:53 PM »
Damn right. We men on this website have to Man Up.
We accommodated this woman because it made us feel good at the time. We put up with stuff we never would have before. We even participated in their little games.
We're men though. All we need from them is sex... . and we can get that anywhere. Leave that trick where you found her and get back to business.
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January 12, 2014, 07:31:06 PM »
Well,said Santa... . but For the women on this board who are going through the same thing... . us guys are here for you as well. We're all family here! Let's move past this twisted crap we've been subjected to... .
It's time to Focus on ourselves, quit wasting another ounce of energy on the pwBPD. Ya, we can feel for them, it's human... . but let's move forward!
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January 12, 2014, 07:40:13 PM »
The women are gonna 'man up' too
I actually had a great weekend, surprised myself. Pancakes for lunch can't solve everything, but they're a good bandaid on the heart.
Onward and upwards, right?
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State85
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Kai,
We're all in this crazy b&$@t together ya know. I had bacon and eggs for dinner... . good for the soul!
Man up Kai!
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January 12, 2014, 08:13:48 PM »
Nice post state, we take care of ourselves! ! We have moved on, those women that we were with lost the best thing that they ever had! And they know it, and that is why they hate us. And they will never get us back! TIA! This is America
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January 12, 2014, 08:23:59 PM »
Quote from: Kai on January 12, 2014, 07:40:13 PM
Pancakes for lunch
Quote from: State85 on January 12, 2014, 07:56:52 PM
bacon and eggs for dinner
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January 12, 2014, 08:24:28 PM »
Jump on Arn... . you've been there for me... . Let's go... . forward.
Irish... . they lost the best thing they ever had! Too bad now... . train is gone! Agree?
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January 12, 2014, 08:28:51 PM »
Really and truly, I think our breakup *was* my ex's loss - but I think she knows that. From what I can tell, my ex had a pretty good track record for attracting and losing beautiful women. That must be a real bummer for her. Wish I knew what her secret was, though - you know, for me, for moving forward! (and it's the 'attracting' part I want to know, not the 'losing' part... . )
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I'm from the south... . born and raised, so if you see a "y'all" it's how we talk down here. It's pretty damn cool not knowing where everybody on this board is from, but we have that one thing in common... . and I really wish we didn't.
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Kai
Nothing left to do but move forward. I'm tired of living in the past. Nothing there for sure. My exgf always told me to quit living in the past... . hey, best thing she ever said to me... . think I'll take her up on that... . thanks biatch!
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Right on state
Im guna grow a pair!
In honour of this raggle tag band of brothers n sisters
BPD family!
They so big I need a wheelbarrow to get around!
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Recycled... .
Well now... . I wanna see that!
We are a family, for sure... .
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