she got triggered in a big way

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

So, I work with my BPDex on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I see her, but maintain NC. I haven't spoken to her in 2.5 months. During that time, I blocked her number as well as all social media. Somehow she unblocked herself and sent me a text that I didn't respond to. I immediately reblocked her number. Long story short, I was tipped that she had slept with someone who had herpes and confronted her about it. She claims she slept with a man who later called her and  told her found out he had herpes. She got tested and doesn't have it. I believe nothing she says so I set up an appointment to get tested. After I learned about the herpes thing (Tuesday) I sent her an email. I was very careful how I worded it... . In short, I basically said I want to focus on myself and that means being away from her. I told her she was blocked from everything.

Soo, Today I get a call from my boss saying she filed some sort of harassment complaint on me. WTH. When we broke up she texted me " don't even think about talking to me at work, you don't want me to ruin your career. " Funny thing is she tried to talk to me 2 days later. These ppl are so bizarre man. They need to be locked up in mental institutions.

[LA4610]

So, I work with my BPDex on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I see her, but maintain NC. I haven't spoken to her in 2.5 months. During that time, I blocked her number as well as all social media. Somehow she unblocked herself and sent me a text that I didn't respond to. I immediately reblocked her number. Long story short, I was tipped that she had slept with someone who had herpes and confronted her about it. She claims she slept with a man who later called her and  told her found out he had herpes. She got tested and doesn't have it. I believe nothing she says so I set up an appointment to get tested. After I learned about the herpes thing (Tuesday) I sent her an email. I was very careful how I worded it... . In short, I basically said I want to focus on myself and that means being away from her. I told her she was blocked from everything.

Soo, Today I get a call from my boss saying she filed some sort of harassment complaint on me. WTH. When we broke up she texted me " don't even think about talking to me at work, you don't want me to ruin your career. " Funny thing is she tried to talk to me 2 days later. These ppl are so bizarre man. They need to be locked up in mental institutions.

[fromheeltoheal]

Yeah, the disorder causes some pretty hurtful behavior sometimes.  So what are you going to do to further detach and protect yourself and your career?

[LA4610]

My plan is to maintain NC like I have been doing. My bosses and I are having a face to face meeting with her boss next week. My boss actually knows EVERYTHING about this girl. I mean EVERYTHING. I told him when we broke up because I knew there was a strong chance something like this would come up. In regards to the harassment complaint, I never harassed her so she can't possible have any type of legit proof that I did.

[Mutt]

My plan is to maintain NC like I have been doing. My bosses and I are having a face to face meeting with her boss next week. My boss actually knows EVERYTHING about this girl. I mean EVERYTHING. I told him when we broke up because I knew there was a strong chance something like this would come up. In regards to the harassment complaint, I never harassed her so she can't possible have any type of legit proof that I did.

It sounds like a distortion campaign from your ex.

[maxen]

My bosses and I are having a face to face meeting with her boss next week. My boss actually knows EVERYTHING about this girl. I mean EVERYTHING.

excellent. the willingness to do a face to face shows you are confident of your position.