something she asked me years ago keeps coming to mind

[itsnotme567]

When we started hanging out she asked if someone had hurt me in the past because it seemed like I was behind a wall.

Things have certainly changed now when we got together I was 50 never dated never been in love. But I can say even though I've been hurt now I've learned a lot.

[seeking balance]

When we started hanging out she asked if someone had hurt me in the past because it seemed like I was behind a wall.

Things have certainly changed now when we got together I was 50 never dated never been in love. But I can say even though I've been hurt now I've learned a lot.

Why do you think this statement is coming to mind for you now?

[itsnotme567]

Maybe just thinking of how I've changed since we've been together. I've been hurt but I've learned some things as well

[seeking balance]

I've been hurt but I've learned some things as well

Yeah, there is a lot to learn from these relationships if we let ourselves.  Want to share what you've learned?

[Turkish]

When we started hanging out she asked if someone had hurt me in the past because it seemed like I was behind a wall.

Things have certainly changed now when we got together I was 50 never dated never been in love. But I can say even though I've been hurt now I've learned a lot.

Hi itsnotme567, when you say you've never been in love, does this include your stbxBPDw? I'm curious, because looking at everything with my uBPDx, I'm sure I wasn't, despite times now and then I felt like I was.

[itsnotme567]

I felt like I was in love with her but what does love feel like. I may have to wait to I fall in love again to be sure.