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I am facing the formidable decision of whether or not to put my DD in a RTC. I just can not keep her safe from herself at home. No matter what I do, she finds a way to hurt herself, or try to kill herself, and last time she very nearly succeeded. I am at a crossroads because her therapist quit on her last week, said my dd has BPD and she can't help her, and I need to put her in residential. She gave up after only 5 sessions. HCT was closed out in February because my DD was doing so well, no cutting since October, very few outbursts, no meltdowns etc. Then out of the blue she takes a whole bottle of extra strength Tylenol. So I have to decide if we go back to HCT (although she has already done a year of 3 days a week which is really intensive), look for another individual therapist, or do residential.
I'm sorry I keep repeating myself I am so distraught and worried and my thoughts are just going a hundred miles an hour. Anyway, is anyone from Maine here? Anyone have any experience with RTCs in Maine?
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Dear elbry
I just wanted to get this post bumped up a bit. Have you read the link to the right at the bottom about RTC? There might be mention of a RTC in Maine but really Elbry you should try to find a program regardless if it is in Maine. Good luck... . it sound like RTC is a good move for you and your dd beccause you are not able to keep her safe at home.
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Elbry
Here is the link to old posts on RTC... . I found this very helpful
Residential Treatment Program (RTP) or Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP)?
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Also this link
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=4.0;sort=views;desc
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I was about to post a link and reply but then clicked on jellibeans links . . . .
The 3 places named on jellibeans' first link are i think considered the best in New England by most parents and clinicians. (Unfortunately, i do not think there is an independent rating sx on these such as "US News" does for hospitals.)
I do not know if Maine even has any such place. Many states are shamefully lacking in mental health services.
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Thanks everyone for your responses. I know there is a Kidspeace in Maine but I have been told by one of her her HCT counselors it is very hard to get in to. I have meetings tomorrow with case manager and nurse case manager so we will talk about it and I will get their input as well.
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