I have thought of this quote a lot lately. I absolutely feel that this is true of my ex. I don't assume that he is only a soul mate to me, though from what I know of his previous ex's, none of them have gone through the work to "transform [their] life." etc. that I am doing. I know now, less than two months out, that this relationship was supposed to happen to me. It HAD to happen so that I could see how much I've been in my own way and to push me to get on with these dreams and goals that I have. I needed to be broken open like this so that I can learn about myself and how I have held myself back, both professionally and in love relationships. It feels as though he was sent to me specifically to teach me these things about myself. And I can only be grateful to him for that.
This has helped me so much today to process things