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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: June 01, 2014, 01:50:35 AM »
1.5 years out.   Funny thing is.   My dwelling has intensified out of the blue.   But depending on how we circulate and what your support system and age is,   It's all apples to oranges.   One article I read said if you investigate and the rebound lasts longer than you expected. Then just pull the scabs off.    She was a like on a post I commented on.   Saw the profile pic.   And said screw it.  She's going strong.     It hurts.   No doubt.    Especially not having found anyone that exciting.    But.  I know the facts.  Scenario been posted many times.    What it did was.  For now.  Is stop the fantasizing I was on her mind.   A BPD in the dominant sense,  wipes you out fast.      Surreal choice I made tonite.         Thank god I have the strength to suck it up and look at my own weakness and not reach out for 100 times more pain.    No pain.  No gain.  Believe that there is another.    Believe it and be better each day  !
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« Reply #1 on: June 01, 2014, 08:14:27 AM »
Quote from: Spartan999 on June 01, 2014, 01:50:35 AM
   No pain, No gain. Believe that there is another. Believe it and be better each day!

  Amen to that! Stay strong, brother.  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #2 on: June 01, 2014, 09:38:42 AM »
Quote from: free'n'clear on June 01, 2014, 08:14:27 AM
Quote from: Spartan999 on June 01, 2014, 01:50:35 AM
   No pain, No gain. Believe that there is another. Believe it and be better each day!

  Amen to that! Stay strong, brother.  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

Amen to that too brother  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

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