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Well wife seems to be having another affair
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Saw a whatsapp msg from a guy calling her princess.
Tired of all this BS.
I tired to make it better. But it just gets worse. 10 years and it all has been bad.
Time for me to move on.
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that's horrible lonelyh, i'm so sorry
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Sorry to hear it. Good luck.
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Sorry, lonelyh. The infidelity has been the most hurtful behavior my dBPDh has had.
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I hope it's not innocent and you have your wires crossed?... .I don't know what was in the body of the message.
If the context is intimate... .then that is deal breaker stuff.
If it has happened in the past and you have been given assurances then that is just rotten.
I know this sort of stuff is typical BPD but that doesn't make it any easier.
Stay well... .whatever you decide to do.
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