Can I add an option?
D. After divorce recovery classes.
Coming out of a marriage, we are sitting ducks for the first person who values us.
True that Skip! I am aggressively working on myself, and want to make sure I am whole before being in another relationship. At the same time, pretty desperate for some human interaction and affection. I want to REALLY know all the

before I get suckered into another toxic relationship.
That being said, after having your self esteem beaten out of you for years it sure does feel good to give or receive a "wink" or a Yup, sitting duck, at least I am aware.