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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« Reply #90 on: September 26, 2014, 11:54:36 AM »

What do I do about kids though... I am seeing a lawyer, but being that they are both step kids... I do not see alot of rights I have.  One of their dads is in prison and the other is a relative deadbeat.  She JUST started her first job outside of cleaning houses in about 7 years at $11 an hour, and even though she will progress fast I am sure in web design, that still means she cannot afford all she has on her plate...  that means kids suffer.

I mean I do feel horrible for her... her mother is dying quickly now, her father just lost his job and is appearing to lose cognitive abilities, she has a degree and starting at a job that pays so little, she has had a recent traumatic experience with a doctor, she got herself a DWI, she has BPD, two teenagers acting like teenagers...

these are not what I caused, but its a heavy load.  
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« Reply #91 on: September 26, 2014, 11:59:07 AM »

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