Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.
I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
Its a relief to have something that makes sense of the crazy you've experienced and feel, while at the same time horribly depressing to realize that someone you care about is so wounded and really not capable of having a healthy relationship.