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Re: recycling years later
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Quote from: Tater tot on September 28, 2014, 06:53:44 PM
Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.
I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
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Quote from: tim_tom on October 13, 2014, 08:22:53 AM
Quote from: Tater tot on September 28, 2014, 06:53:44 PM
Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.
I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
we found papers on mine. Sociopathic and borderline overlapping
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In the eye for an eye game, he who cares least, wins. I, for one. am never stepping into the ring with someone who is impulsive and doesn't think of the downstream consequences.
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Quote from: tim_tom on October 13, 2014, 08:22:53 AM
Quote from: Tater tot on September 28, 2014, 06:53:44 PM
Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.
I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
Its a relief to have something that makes sense of the crazy you've experienced and feel, while at the same time horribly depressing to realize that someone you care about is so wounded and really not capable of having a healthy relationship.
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Quote from: Tater tot on October 15, 2014, 08:37:57 PM
Quote from: tim_tom on October 13, 2014, 08:22:53 AM
Quote from: Tater tot on September 28, 2014, 06:53:44 PM
Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.
I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
Its a relief to have something that makes sense of the crazy you've experienced and feel, while at the same time horribly depressing to realize that someone you care about is so wounded and really not capable of having a healthy relationship.
What really bothers me is how she had me so sucked into the idea that she was so perfect and had no problems.
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Quote from: peiper on October 15, 2014, 09:15:42 PM
Quote from: Tater tot on October 15, 2014, 08:37:57 PM
Quote from: tim_tom on October 13, 2014, 08:22:53 AM
Quote from: Tater tot on September 28, 2014, 06:53:44 PM
Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.
I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
guys they are never ever going to be better. They will leave a trial of broken dreams and promises everywhere they go. I'm over it. Screw here.
Its a relief to have something that makes sense of the crazy you've experienced and feel, while at the same time horribly depressing to realize that someone you care about is so wounded and really not capable of having a healthy relationship.
What really bothers me is how she had me so sucked into the idea that she was so perfect and had no problems.
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In the eye for an eye game, he who cares least, wins. I, for one. am never stepping into the ring with someone who is impulsive and doesn't think of the downstream consequences.
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Quote from: hurting300 on October 13, 2014, 08:33:04 AM
Quote from: tim_tom on October 13, 2014, 08:22:53 AM
Quote from: Tater tot on September 28, 2014, 06:53:44 PM
Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.
I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
we found papers on mine. Sociopathic and borderline overlapping
Oh that sounds like really bad news. Was she the queen subtype?
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