The divorce was over a few months ago. Two months (which is about the amount of time it always took for her to call) after she left I received six friend requests on Facebook from women who had just opened their account and had no friends. I did not accept any of them and they stopped. This is after I had blocked her. I really think it was her wanting to see what was going on. Another weird thing is she made a big deal out of picking up two flat screens and her bike. Her lawyer Emailed saying she would be at my place on Sunday between 8 and noon. I Emailed back sorry I'll be out of town. So while I'm in Texas I get a call from the police that she is there to get her stuff anyway. When I get back I wrote the lawyer and told her that I'll be moving in a few weeks and that she has that amount of time to recover her things. I get a reply the next day from the lawyer that she had been discharged and my ex didn't want her to purse recovering her things. Totally crazy !
How are you doing amid this chaos? It seems like you have a perspective that is protecting your balance. What is working best for you to maintain sanity & safety?
