Harri, you did in no way cut short the conversation, as my first post was more of a rant, and I was glad to get it off my chest. It is hard to really relate all of one's thoughts in a forum like this. Mostly I just post the basics cos I hate to type. and so my second post was one of those. Your replies are always very considerate of the posters feelings. Which is why it is a no brainer that u are not BPD.

Louise7777, very interesting observations about your family.
As far as fleas Vs BPD, I too am interested in others opinions.