what i am able to do now

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I recently posted how I ran smack dab into another BPD. She is beautiful, intelligent, easy to talk to and of course we hit it off immediately. But I knew from listening to others she was a little too free with her natural "gifts" so to speak. Come to find out she not only was sleeping with 3 married men but now has her sights set on another! She also has a alcohol and cocaine problem.

She has been hard to close the deal with me but given what I have learned here over the years i can now do what in tthe past I would or could never do which is walk away.

The amount of attention she has showered on me these past 3 months is just amazing. I felt that lonely girl inside me rise to the bait several times... .but this time I didn't swallow it only to be left gutted later. So for that I am proud. But it would have never happened without the knowledge I learned from this site.